As per our class discussion tonight on how high, the numbers are for a students who plagiarizes or purchase papers from websites. I guess I can see why this sort of conduct among students is occurring. Just the other day when I was on campus, I heard a young woman crying. I asked her what was wrong and she stated that she not going to receive an A in one of the courses’ she was taking, and went on too say that, her parents were spending a lot of money to send her to Nazareth and she knew that they were going to be disappointed in her.
As a mother myself, I could not imagine placing that kind of pressure on my son, especially, if I know that he did his best. As I begin to reflect on that moment maybe the problem is not the students who are buying the papers maybe the problem is parents who are sending the wrong message to our young people. Although, there is nothing wrong with being competitive, there is something wrong when the love you have for your son or daughter is based on their grades. This probably explains the high suicide rates among college students. I know this is true because I use to be a suicide counselor! While there is nothing wrong with working towards an “A”, however, there is something wrong when you convey this message to your son or daughter that this is the only grade that you will accept even when they have given their best…
